An employee says no one ever told them about the change. A supervisor is frustrated that an employee didn’t communicate sooner about a problem. A line leader is frustrated that he didn’t know about a change until the last minute. Two coworkers don’t get along because one often says things that offend the other.
Communication. A constant challenge in the workplace at every single level. Some companies send their supervisors and managers to training to improve their communication. They learn how to manage their emotions and directly say what needs to be said. They learn to listen better and ask more questions. But one thing that is often missing from the training is culture. And culture is one of the most important factors in communication.
Laurie and I have worked with many companies that have very diverse workforces. And we’ve seen many situations where disagreements or miscommunication were really rooted in cultural differences that were never recognized. There are some very crucial differences that have a remarkable impact on the way people communicate. Here are four examples of cultural differences that will change the way someone communicates.
1. Direct vs. Indirect Communication
Maybe you didn’t even know that this was a cultural difference. In typical U.S. culture, we place a high value on direct communication. Have you ever heard someone say, “honesty is the best policy?” Or maybe “It’s more important to speak the truth than to spare someone’s feelings.” Or “Time is money. Get to the point.” In the U.S. workplace, directness is considered the best way to communicate. However, this is a cultural perspective. In the U.S., time, efficiency, and productivity are some of the highest values. In many other cultures around the world, including most Latin American cultures and Asian cultures, relationships and connections are more valuable. In these cultures, you will hear phrases like this: “Being polite is more important than being honest.” Or “If the truth might hurt, soften it.”
As you can imagine, when these two types of cultures are working together, there is a high probability of misunderstanding . If a boss, who typically has a direct approach to communication, addresses an employee about a mistake, an employee may feel hurt by the direct approach. On the other hand, supervisors and leaders may become frustrated when employees, who communicate more indirectly, fail to quickly and clearly bring up issues. Understanding that others may have a different approach to communication is important in lowering the number of misunderstandings in the workplace.
2. Saving Face
This cultural difference is related to the first. In typical U.S. culture, it’s more important to speak the truth than to worry about someone else’s feelings or to worry about how you will look. (Not that everyone does that, but we consider it the ideal.) In other cultures, if saying the truth could cause someone to feel uncomfortable or embarrassed, they will avoid the subject. How a person feels in the context of a conversation is far more important than the actual conversation.
Again, understanding this fundamental value difference is crucial when communicating cross-culturally.
3. View of Authority
In the U.S., it’s typical for companies to give room for employees at any level to approach, disagree, or challenge someone in authority–of course, in a respectful way. Someone in authority may or may not listen, but employees have the freedom to voice their thoughts. We value this and consider it healthy workplace culture. However, this would be considered disrespectful in other cultures. In many other cultures, it is inappropriate to disagree with someone in authority.
In the workplace, leaders may expect employees to speak up if they have ideas, thoughts, or if they see problems. However, it’s important to understand that this is an expectation that will have to be clearly and repeatedly discussed with employees. Not every employee will feel comfortable approaching an authority with their thoughts.
4. Gender Differences
We hear a lot of talk about inclusion and equity for women in the workplace. This is important and crucial for our growth as a nation. Women add unique strengths and perspectives in the workplace. However, it’s important to remember that no matter how much work you do as a company, you will still find employees with different views because of their cultural backgrounds.
For women who have grown up in a culture where their voice was not included or where it was inappropriate to talk directly to a man, they may have a hard time getting past those expectations, even if your workplace culture values and gives opportunities for their voice to be heard. It’s important for companies and leaders to recognize this and provide other ways for women to speak up.
All of the cultural differences we’ve mentioned are common in the workplace. They are causing conflicts almost daily in workplaces where multiple cultures are represented. The key is to provide training to all levels of employees on these cultural differences. If employees understand differences, they can better accommodate diverse communication styles, and conflicts can be resolved more quickly.
Talk to your employees about communication differences. Normalize conversations about cultural differences. And if you see a lot of challenges, consider offering cultural competency training for your employees. You can check out the details of our training
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